In my last blog entry on relationships I was talking about the reasons for relationships failing and two of them were unresolved past-life contracts and the blocked ancestors flow. Several requests came in afterwards asking me to write more about this. Voila, here it is!

One plus one… is two and more

Two people meet and start a relationship, but there is no tabula rasa –men and women bring their experiences and knowledge from childhood and youth into the relationships. With a widened consciousness we can see, that every person also brings also her experience with procreation, pregnancy, birth and with every past life with her and that not only the man is having a relationship with the woman and the woman with the man, but there is a relationship with the whole family, the whole chain of ancestors of every partner.

Now some can say: “Because of this I have broken off the contact to my family. So they can not disturb my new family!” It may be necessary sometimes to stay in distance to the family but this does not automatically change the upright energetic connection.

We are all connected

We hear that we are all connected and sometimes think of this as a condition we should work on and reach in future.This is wrong, because this condition is a fact – the connection is here all the time. Those who learn to look at the energy field and the energy connection cords between people can see the strong cords between grand parents, parents and children. The only case where cords can be missing are after artifical insemination. Usually these cords are guaranteeing the connection between souls in the time and space matrix. A good thing!

With this cords the soul detects, in which continuum it integrates while planning a new life on earth and this cords hold the soul „on path“. The souls recognizes with this cords, which situations and conditions are already given in the family, what will be expected from the coming soul, which contracts she will have to fulfill and which orders she has to give to the own children or other people being in contact with the family. At that time the soul knows: I can handle it.

The energy flow of the ancestors

Our soul has another – wider – perception than our daily consciousness. Our soul sees the qualities of our family, our parents, our kids different than our daily consciousness, our ego does. And also if we do not want to believe it sometimes: We are fitting perfectly in the family we were born into - the key-lock-principle. Our souls always searches for a family providing us with the greatest developing potential and if we have problems with that, it is because we just haven’t realized what we have to learn and where the gifts are hidden!

The energy flow of the ancestors is integrating us in a horizontal direction on the life-matrix, the divine connection with above is the upright connection. Both together cleared flowing bring harmony in relationships, selfconfidence, selfassurance and selflove.

The matrix of the ancestors

If we learn to see our connecting cords spread into all times and spaces in the matrix we are woven in, we can see that we are standing in a row with the ancestors and the energy flows through us to our children. And it does that if we like it or not. Always a certain energy is manifesting and wants to be lived in a family. As soon as somebody incarnates in the family, he has decided to live as a part of this special chain of people and to represent the basic thoughts, ideas, themes, concepts of this family energy, like fear, sadness, honesty, glory etc.

But often enough we forget, that we did make this decision and go in to resistance. How hard life gets then you can imagine when you take the picture of a stone, throwing itself into the river, trying to dam the flow of the water. This stone will be confronted with a lot of continuously pressure from the water. From family settings we know that a system always tries to complete something missing and to push threatening parts of the family out of the system (andalways a delegate takes the role of the missing person). The most family systems are still aligned for survival.

Where freedom begins

We do not have much choices in case of taking the energy of the ancestors with all the included themes. We are standing in this energy since birth. Freedom waits if we are ready to look at this flow very conscious, if we are ready to examine it, navigate it and transform it through the open, feeling, loving heart.
As long as somebody is in resistance against the family, the flow of the ancestors energy will bounce against the inner stone – the closed heart – and will produce big drama in family life.

Being a clairvoyant, I can see the ancestors energy flow come into the back side of the body of the client, if the client has not blocked this energy. It goes through the heart and and leaves the person at the front of the body. The outflow of the energy is a good sign, it means, that the whole love and power of the ancestors field has been taken, everything is cleared and balanced and mixed with the own love this energy now goes out in to the world – and brings the love back to the person, which he maybe always wanted to have from the family.

Disturbing ancestors energy in relationships

In relationships you can recognize the not balanced or blocked energy flow in several unhealthy patterns. Also people which have lived independently for years can start to develop such patterns after starting the relationship or after moving together in a house, after marriage or after the first child.
The dangerous thing on this patterns is, that they often develop very subtle or at times, which we do not recognize at important, like the 10 years- or 20 years-life-cycles, the age of the parents or the children. If the partners do not know it, they also do not take the responsibility for the patterns. Instead people deny, block, project their inner conflicts onto the partner.

„We do not know why the women in our family have no luck with men!“ you can hear then, if the daughter has a problem with her selfconfidence and even the peacefullest man in the world becomes a macho in her presence. Or „Why does my son is always together with lazy women?“ could also be a cry of a mother, which can not control her own urge for perfection and projection and his will be continued in the family of her son. The son would like to be a lazy person or just live in his own rhythm, but the does not allow himself to speak up against his mother and what he did not develop face to face with his mother he gives to his wife as a contract to fulfill. That’s not a nice job, the “lazy” daughter-in-law can only be lazy, if she wants that or not.

This is the largest sign to recognize family-patterns or pastlife-pattern of a partner: If the other one feels to be forced to play a role which he is not comfortable with. The usually not lazy but now forced to be lazy daughter-in-law has to give her mother-in-law, her partner and her self something to learn, all three have the same theme, but in different aspects: To stand to his own tempo and letting the other be in theirs. A typical ancestors energy theme that has to be looked at very conscious and has to be balanced and cleared if the relationship wants a chance for a good development.

Conscious relationships with the power of the ancestors flow

Consciousness is the key word for healthy and happy relationships. Consciousness is the key word for the right use of the ancestors flow. Everybody can learn how to recognize the powerful healing themes and the unhealed blocking themes in the ancestors line, can work on them in a caring and healing way, be responsible where he or she should and not responsible where he or she don’t have to.

Then partners in a relationship will be in peace with the ancestors energy flow and if they have reached this moment, they will recognize, that there is a energy coming into the back of the body like a shear force, flowing through the heart. If both partners can change the blocked or mislead ancestors energy flow to a loved, cleared and balanced ancestors energy, so that it helps in a clear way, as shear force, as a supporting stand, as neutral help from all people living before us here on earth, then they also can live very a happy, peaceful and relaxed relationship.

And that is my wish for you,

Christine

Who works in her practice with clients

to bring the ancestors energy flow into balance again